diff --git a/upub/routes/src/activitypub/actor/following.rs b/upub/routes/src/activitypub/actor/following.rs
index 12566bbc..4bc30ead 100644
--- a/upub/routes/src/activitypub/actor/following.rs
+++ b/upub/routes/src/activitypub/actor/following.rs
@@ -82,6 +82,7 @@ pub async fn page<const OUTGOING: bool>(
 	};
 
 	let mut filter = Condition::all()
+		.add(model::relation::Column::Accept.is_not_null())
 		.add(if OUTGOING { Follower } else { Following }.eq(user.internal));
 
 	if hidden {