this way we clean upstream code from a lot of .ok_or(), and everything
that doesn't care about the error can go back to previous usage just
adding .ok()
no more "impl ..." hell, each trait has associated types so that we know
it's a "Self::Link" or a "Self::Actor", but in practice they can both be
a "serde_json::Value" and thus we can change its type. also Node::Array
is now a Vec<T> rather than Vec<Node<T>> because it makes more sense.
Node is Iterable and will yield zero (Empty|Link), one (Object) or many
(Array) Ts
